When I went home this past Valentines Day I came across something very unpleasant. My boyfriend has roaches! Gross! They only seem to come out at night, but that’s still just wrong. He recently asked me to visit him for Easter, which I would love to but I’m scared. We’ve never spoke about the problem because I think he’s pretty embarrassed about it. I miss him so much but I can’t find the right time or way to address the situation. He’s a sweetheart and I don’t want to hurt his feelings. How can I bring up the issue casually? I told him I would let him know in a week so time is ticking. What do I do?