OMG! I just found out that my b.f. of 5 yrs. is ready to propose to me. I wasn’t supposed to know about it just yet, but I heard about it from a mutual friend. Or can he be considered a friend if he is willing to ruin a secret like that? Anyway I’m actually glad that he did because now I have time to come up with an easy letdown. Although I do love my b.f. I was more on the verge of breaking up with him rather than marry him. Things just aren’t the same. I’m bored. There just isn’t enough passion in our relationship to make me want to commit for the rest of my life. If anyone can help, please do. How do you tell your lover that you can’t see yourself married to them?